Another DAY goes by

I’m highly inspired and impressed by Baharul’s ‘Another year goes by‘ post on his blog.

Yes, changes are all around us! As I see it, and also mentioned a few times here, that it is the trans-mode phase of the life right now. In almost bloody every aspect of life. Sigh! It is ONE of those TRANS-mode phases in life.

Life is fun these days though. Sometimes it is nice to sit back and relax, thinking about it! Yes of course, this is something which would definitely bring in mixed feelings on to our mind. Of what IS important! Of what we think is! Of what we always thought was! Of what we never though   t! Vague? yeah, can’t help!

I haven’t been away from family ever before Kolkata. Though when at home, I was always an independent chap, So it isn’t that tough! Its fun infact! But what I miss the most these days is them. Specially when I eat alone every afternoon. Or have dinner late at night.

Back at home, mom would always tell us, me and my brother, to have at least the dinner with them. But I’ve always have this habit of eating alone later at night. So did my brother. I guess he still does. But now I hate it. Though I can’t, yes can’t do a thing about it. I’ve tried!

Right now, as I write this, I can also recollect my trip to Delhi a month back. The most I miss are the ‘jam sessions’ I had with my brother. Singing along as he played the guitar. Marvelous! I wish to relive those moments again, soon!

‘Over the years I have realized that whenever you compare your lives at different stages nostalgia always wins’, as mentioned by him just ’so’ very touched me! I sort of realize that how we always talk about how great our lives were and how much fun we had with our school or college gang, without realizing that the other person also likes appreciation. Be fair to your present friends. But at the same time I ‘wish’ hope to be discussing my current friends later in life. The irony is whom do we think we will be talking about, and whom would we actually do? errr!

So, as every day pass and the more I love it with the acceptance that for anyone, investment in oneself is the most important thing right now. Trans-mode remember? Its fun! Its exciting! And I’m looking forward to more challenging stuff coming up soon!

Charu, how are you?

Yeah! I’m great!