Last week I saw one of my college friend online and the first thing I did was to say a hi and have a good conversation as it had been really long time. She happens to be one of those few friends whom I’m really fond of as a person. Not surprised I did get replies to my messages, but in a slight different and vague manner.
As I kept guessing what was wrong, I recieved a call from this very friend that her boyfriend was accessing her mail and replied to my messages. She in turn asked me not to reply to her messages and ofcourse not even ping her for that matter. Wow!!!
A couple of days back, this other friend whom I talk to daily over the internet, messages me not to ping her myself as the boyfriend might be on her ID. “If this stays, Who would ping her any how in future?”, was the first thing that came to my mind. Yes it did.
Now it also reminds me of a close friend whom I lost just because the ‘boyfriend’ never wanted her to talk to her friends. Sorry I had to mention it here. Forgive me.
Then I have a friend whose girlfriend would look up all of his cellphone messages and always assumes something is fishy. I feel bad for you, my friend.
Yes, you would be saying I suck at relationships, who am I to write all this? Well, just an attempt to make you guys wonder that do we actually need to share everything with our mates? our passwords? our cellphones? everything? Please dont pick up the ‘trust’ issue here.
Your mate wouldn’t ever, yes ever like all of your friends. Is it he/she who decides whom would you talk to? Or is it you who made those friends?
It gives me a shiver. Yes. But, I’m not doing this. Ever. Not asking my girl’s passwords ever. Even thinking of doing that makes me laugh right now. hahaha.
I find it assuming… how these couples define this, oh! we need to keep a check. I also wonder if both the guy and the girl knows each others passwords, otherwise its more hollow.
I think I should close this post here. Privacy or no privacy is what you guys have to deal with. I don’t care. hahaha!!!
